Dear Arya (A Fan Letter)

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/Note: If you have been watching "Decoupled", you will realise that they introduce Arya as a misanthrope but he is just exposing people of their charade/

So Arya, played by Madhavan, in Netflix's Decoupled is the life of the show. Real people, at least in India, speak exactly like that, or some do. They body shame, fat shame, they laugh at you and that is how you grow a thick layer and pass sarcastic comments. He says what others just think. He is the Tamilian with no filters. He is warm too. You can see it in the way he cares for Shruti and also to an extent, Rohini. Surveen has done a great job too. 


They might have taken it a bit too far in several instances and as a Hyderabadi, I may not be able to relate with many of the slices of the Gurgaon life but certainly Arya has poured life into his character. He is so real. He is annoying at times. He speaks the wrong things, does what he feels like. He never sugar coats and is always observant. Much like a writer. Some times, he is a pain but then when needed, he is always around. He goes to the village to bring his driver back. 

Well, life is not sugar-coated and how we deal with daily life is how we live it. The big moments such as an anniversary or a birthday are mere extensions of our living, especially after a certain point where you want to seek calm and joy in the mundane and Arya makes those moments interesting with his no-nonsense approach to life. Though caught up in the midst of drama for his behaviour, he stands up for what he believes: mirroring the cracks in our society. 

Arya, please continue, darling!

Warm regards!

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